You’re Not Behind

Hey brother,

Ever look around and feel like everyone’s ahead of you?
They’ve got the money.
The body.
The family.
The purpose.

And you’re just… catching up.
Trying to clean up your past.
Trying to find your rhythm.

That feeling?
It can wreck a man.
But here’s what most don’t realize
You’re not behind.
You’re just waking up.

The Belief Shift: Delay doesn’t mean defeat
You didn’t waste your life.
You were learning.
You were surviving.
You were being forged.

You had to go through that pain.
You had to fall.
You had to be humbled.

Why?
So when you rose, it would mean something.
So your discipline wouldn’t be fake.
So your leadership would be real.

You weren’t late.
You were being prepared.

The Solution: 3 Ways to Reframe the Timeline

→ Step 1: Stop measuring yourself against others
Their story isn’t yours.
They didn’t go through what you did.
They’re not building what you’re building.

Comparison is the thief of perspective.
Don’t get distracted. Stay on mission.

→ Step 2: Use your scars as fuel
Everything you’ve been through can either weigh you down
or power you forward.

Use it.
The pain. The regret. The lessons.
That’s your advantage.
Most men never go that deep.

→ Step 3: Focus on the next 90 days, not the last 9 years
You don’t change your life by reliving the past.
You change it by dominating the present.

Pick your focus.
Build momentum.
Stack the wins.

You’re not behind.
You’re building different.
And that takes time.

Talk soon,
G Dubb

Comfort is the trap.
Reality is yours to create.
To change your life, start with your mind.

P.S. What’s one thing your past prepared you for?
Hit reply and tell me. I read every message.