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The War Within
How to win the inner fight between the man you were... and the man you’re becoming
Hey brother,
Every man fights two battles:
The one the world sees and the one inside his head.
You say you want to change.
You start stacking wins.
You build momentum.
But then that voice creeps in…
"You’ll mess up again."
"This won’t last."
"You’re not that guy."
And if you’re not prepared, it wins.
The Belief Shift: You Can’t Outwork a War You Haven’t Faced
Most men try to out-discipline their demons.
They think more reps, more grind, more pressure will fix it.
But you can’t win the war if you won’t face the enemy.
That voice?
It’s the old version of you, trying to survive.
The addict. The comfort-seeker. The quitter.
It doesn’t want to die quietly.
If you want to become the man you’re meant to be,
You have to go to war with the one you used to be.
The Solution: 3 Steps to Win the Inner Battle
→ Step 1: Hear the Voice, Don’t Ignore It
Don’t numb it.
Don’t distract yourself.
Don’t pretend it’s not there.
Recognize it.
That inner critic has a pattern.
It shows up at the same moments, right before you level up.
→ Step 2: Challenge It with Truth
You’re not that man anymore.
Speak truth out loud:
“I don’t live like that.”
“I don’t go back.”
“I’m not here to repeat, I’m here to rise.”
You don’t reason with lies, you replace them with truth.
→ Step 3: Act Like the Man You’re Becoming
Do what future-you would do.
Not the old you.
Not the emotional you.
The rebuilt you. The one who leads.
That’s how you kill the old self, by starving it of action and feeding the new one daily.
This war is real.
But you’re not alone.
Every time you act from the new identity,
You silence the old one.
One choice at a time.
Talk soon,
– G Dubb
Life Architect | Founder, The Dubb Letter
Comfort is the trap.
Reality is yours to create.
To change your life, start with your mind.
P.S. When was the last time you felt that inner voice trying to pull you back?
Reply and tell me. I read every message.